Kaiser 4 XL

I got the anda seat kaiser 3. Love it. Nice and comfy but still firm enough you don't feel metal. It's been going 2 years ISH now, no wear at all.

ngl i sit like L too and regular chairs kill my hips. what helped me was looking for seats with a flat wide base and removable armrests. the Secretlab Titan Evo has a really roomy seat and the armrests flip up so you get that open space. also check the AndaSeat Kaiser 3 for extra padding - your weig

ngl dxracer runs firm across their whole line. for a muscular build you want something with high density foam thats actually soft. Secretlab Titan Evo Softweave has a plush version that might work. Anda Seat Kaiser 3 uses thicker foam and wider seat base. Herman Miller Sayl if you can stretch budget

I have the Anda Seat Kaiser 3 XL which is good for tall people bit firm though but not too bad

Im not sure if this meets your requirements, but I have the AndaSeat Kaiser 3 and loving it, I know the Kaiser 4 series 2 has a 6D arm rest that you can adjust the width, looks real cool! Comes in fabric too. Has a really nice and thick plush seat so you can sit for hours and not feel that pressure.

ngl finding one with no plastic armrests is key - the cheap ones dig in so bad. i ended up with the Anda Seat Kaiser 4 and it checks all your boxes: thick cushion, 4D armrests with soft padding, full recline, and solid lumbar support. pricey but worth it for long sessions. the Noblechairs Epic is an

dowinx feels great at first but the padding breaks in pretty fast and doesn’t stay supportive long term sihoo m18 is better for posture and desk work but it doesn’t have that same sink in and lean way back feeling people usually want from gaming chairs if you want something that still leans back com

I sit the same way and my anda seat Kaiser 3 (fabric) has been amazing. Not so much back cushion but the seat is so damn comfy.

Anda seat kaiser, razer iskur v2, secretlab titan evo. Last one have a lot accessories and 3 versions (Small, regular, XL) fabric/leather. Some people complain about firm seat on this chair. But it's not bad because you will not sink in it.